A Lot Been Happening

My lack of posting has been due to some changes of mind and path. My good friend has obviously turned me in various ways becasue since posting last we have moved on considerably.

Firstly, an dimportantly is my husband who has gone through a sort of ceremony with my friend and I and will now be known as alicia around us. He has to learn the vow which is about 6 sentences and 10 lines in length and part of these vows includes his wish to have sex with another man (Yes blew my mind when he confessed this urge). It also includes an acceptance that I might want sex with a "proper man" and I am free to do so as long as alicia knows about it.
 I have tasted female sex  (Literally) and am now openly having an affair with my friend, well open insofar as alicia knows.
I have also taken a further spanking from her over her knees.

IN return I have spanked and caned Minx several times and on Saturday tied her over a table for 50 hard strokes after which I comforted her then we shagged the fuk out of each other. Wonderful experience. I have also sent her text messages demanding she comes to my house immediately (during the day) and licks me out. I cane her for every minute it takes her to arrive over 5 minutes.

She loves all this and is also doing lines for me like a naughty schoolie. I have watched her do these and that turns me on. I am very dominant around her and alicia.

The big one is her estranged ex husband, known as penny, is returning to the home. Long story but this is short term and comes on the terms that she is nothing but a slave to both my friend and I. She comes back Sunday afternoon and starts work in my friends coffee shop on the Monday which leaves her free to play with me.

All in all an amazing turn around and happy at play. Alicia is exceptionally happy, still in her cage and devoted to my pleasures.

I have watched gay sex often and the idea of penny and alicia dressed as sissies doing sex together actually turns me on. I know not everyone would find that so but I do, as does my friend.

So there you have it and since nobody appears interested in this blog, no friends, followers or comments, I may just stop posting as it is getting real private now.

See what I decide

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Off And Running

Well not blogged for a while while I got things into perspective.

Husband first;

He has become so very submissive and sissy like. Doing everything he is told and more. Is attentive to a fault and always ready to serve my needs. His cage has stayed on and he is the better for it.

I am also loving his cage, teasing him and the difference it makes to his attitude, approach and general behaviour.

It is humiliating for him but I am starting to tell him more often what a small cock he has and how I get more pleasure from his tongue anyway. He loves it all.

Naughty Minx

She continues to tease me and mix me with emotions I wonder about.

I am still unsure after that first spanking but probably take another one...soon, under the right conditions.

She now does lines for me each week and on a Monday presents these and asks for a spanking and caning which I admit I am enjoying more and more and look forward to them. I honestly amaze myself at how easily I do this knowing she will be crying. Perhaps because I know she is wanting and enjoying it. I have gone round and sat having a glass of wine watching TV while she sits on a prickly mat, naked writing my lines. That turns me on something mad, for some reason. Perhaps the power?

She continues to come round to us and husband is dressed and not as humiliated as he was at first. We are becoming close friends.

She has also text me on a few occasions asking for a spanking, which I have given and last week she frigged for me and then asked me a few days later to go round and watch her.

It ended with me “helping” by using a rampant rabbit on her and I admit I got very turned on watching and helping her.

When I got home, house was empty and I got naked and frigged myself, really wishing she was doing it. I imagined all kinds of things especially her laid on the bed and me pushing my pussy to her mouth for some tongue. A thing I do with husband often.

Last Monday I got her lines, which she had completed so spanked her then reminder her she had asked for the tawse when she had been frigging.

The tawse was on the bed and she handed it to me with a coy look and got over some pillows.

She had asked for 50 and after some verbal’s I gave them and boy did she cry by the end. I was feeling sorry and gave her a cuddle and said “Should we wait for the cane during the week”

I half expected her to say no but instead she said “Yes Miss please. Would you put some cream on my ass?”

She laid on her front and I rubbed in some cream on her very hot blotchy but sexy ass. As both expected, her thighs started to open invitingly and my fingers dropped down and by the end she was turned over and I was frigging a girl for the first time (well not the first but that was many years ago and another life) .

It was an amazing experience and her smell was intoxicating. Her hands were on my arm and shoulder and why she did not go further I don’t know.

On Wednesday we went to town and she bought me my own rabbit and as she had asked before lunch, we went home to give her the caning she missed on Monday

Almost with no hesitation she asked “Shall I go get ready for you Ma’am?” and then said “Would you wait 5 minutes before you come up please (evolves she loves the anticipation)

I went up and there she was naked apart from her panties.

Handing me the cane I asked her “So how many is it today Minx?” and she said “It should be 24 Miss but I think I deserve extra for being allowed to wait two days”

I told her to bend over the end of the bed and pulled her pants down and then started. I loved every stroke and laid them hard, if her cries were anything to go by, and added 6 extra.

We cuddled and she asked “Do you want to help me frig Miss” and I did as before.

After she was done and we both composed ourselves she did ask “Do you not want to frig?”

I did but a bit embarrassed at what I wanted and suddenly took the bull by the horns and started to strip my jeans and pants off. She asked me if I wanted her rabbit and shockingly I said “I want you to use it on me”

What followed was my first fem fem frig and she made me cum very quickly and I bounced about like a rabbit in the process. No fingers or anything just that rabbit which she bought me.

So there we are.

Never thought it would happen but we have started on the way to what we both know is going to be a full on relationship with each other.

Will possibly come as a shock to her but husband is aware, we do not have secrets, and loves the idea. So my minx whenever you feel like it text me and be ready to tongue me, your Mistress, who may become very demanding of you in the near future. I also need to know for certain if you want/mind/don’t want etc husband watching or participating when we do things together.

On a separate note, she is talking about her ex coming back to stay for a while as it appears his new relationship has fallen apart. I mentioned this to husband and asked “How do you fancy having another sissy to play with?” His face showed it all and I do believe he is extremely excited about playing with another sissy beside him. However, I think she has to take time over this as while it sounds sexy and fun, they did part on a bit of a low by what she tells me and he is also now confirmed gay?????

This led to conversations that I never thought we would have and my otherwise apparently homophobic husband is in a closet actually. He admitted that while not being gay What is gay?

He admits he does sometimes have fantasies that I “force” him to suck cock. He says that especially if the cock in question makes his cock look as small as it is. Shocked I was but if I am honest I would enjoy watching him tackle a cock for the first time. Guys think cock sucking is a delight for us girls??? Perhaps he should learn about gagging etc. Anyway that would be far in the future.

For the present he is excited enough that his beloved wife is going to embark on a relationship with her friend and neighbour.

I don’t even feel I have been led astray. Rather, I have lost some inhibitions that have always been on my mind. Thought it was wrong to have these thoughts but now I have woken up I can see I should not be and nobody can say anything about whatever we chose, and it is we because I would not be doing this without husband saying he was cool with it. The fact he almost shoots his load when I suggest anything remotely kinky perhaps says more than I can imagine?

Naughty Times And Thoughts

Found this video today and thought I would share it.
Hope the link works cos it does it for me!!!!!

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Mixed Up

Taking a break from this blog...I think.

Few things mixing with my head.

I actually asked Anne to spank me the other day and then went through with it. Jeans off, over her knee and my first spanking ever!!!!!!

It was my reaction that startled me. It was a play spanking, an erotic spanking and towards the end I actually asked her to spank me hard and took 10 slaps that made me cry.

I embarassed myself by dressing and running home. Thought about it then went back and talked with her before taking the brush to her rather nice sexy bum.

Came home and husband sorted out the burning in my pussy.

There comes my next problem.

If Anne had pushed me and tried to make love with me I think I would have gone with it (and yes Anne I now you will read this) but this straight lady has started fantasising about lesbian sex. watching films, and thinking about Anne spanking me and seducing me.

Now you know why I need a break and am mixed up. A few weeks ago that was a no place to go and would never consider it. Was I just denying myself or refusing to accept my urges or have I been corrupted/ What would happen if we did it, I mean how would we feel and how would I react. How would husband feel (says he would love me to even if not able to watch, which he would not get to do, that I assure you)

What if I started to baulk at the idea once we started?

Going for a frig while husband is at work as cant wait...sorry

Strange Things For Strange People...Or Not?

Well, alas, Anne did not read the last blog in time so no sucg fun, or alternatively she told me she had not read it.

We went out for our meal, came back, had some FUN then off she went home. In turn I decided to give husband a canin and first a spanking over my knees. He was so pleased with himself and how he does not even blush now. But he was a bad boy, as follows.

The amazing part is that after we got home he served wine and then said to me "May I go and change please?" and then when he came back, as instructed he asked "May I thank Anne for her present?2

he turned to Anne and said "Thank you very much for my pink chastity cage Anne"
Anne laughed and asked if he had tried it yet and he turned to me and said "May I go and put my cage on please?"

Well bolstered by the wine I asked him if he appreciated that once it was on that it would be on for as long as I decided and that if it showed under his trousers at work that was his issue. i also said that for as long a sit was on he got no sexual release and I would no doubt use him much more for my own pleasures. he looked almost sad as he said he understood and wanted that.

I told him "Go and get it and ask Anne if she will fit it for you"

Well back he came an obvious erection (even if small) showing under his skirt and asked Anne if she would fit it for him "Please"

Anne was laughing and said she would then said "I am glad they made them this size as I thought small would be too big so got extra small.

She told him to lift his skirt and pull his panties down and present himself. His little dicklet stood up and she smiled saying "It wont go on over this, how do we get rid of it?"

She looked at me and I shrugged and said "All yours my dear you know best"

Without as much as a blush she started to wank him, talking dirty saying things like "What do we do if your little cocky spurts?" She looked over and I nodded at her to keep going.

he was beginning to react and she said "perhaps Anne should cane your ass so so hard if you cum?" Husband was holding back and saying "Yes Ma'am Yes" and that made me step in and say "If you cum by Anne's hand then her hand will wield the cane then me."
I swear she increased the play and he did spurt all over the leather settee. I left and fetched the cane then said to him "Get over the settee" handed the cane to Anne and said whip his ass hard.

She gave him 24 strokes all verocious and soon he was yelling and screaming for real.

After the caning Anne fitted the cage with ease and handed me the key. I told her to keep it (but I do have the spare)

Thus, when she had left I lectured husband on enjoying the wank too much, had him over my knees and used the brush then another 12 of the cane as he looked well thrashed when I saw his ass.

Now, as for Anne. We later discussed her lines and I agreed to give them. She persuaded me she wanted a real task and test and I have agreed that every Monday she will "report" to me and give me her lines. She must do a quarter by each week and complete by the end.

She suggested the following.
Each week she will ask for a spanking and 24 of the cane. If not done all her weeks lines it will be 36 of the cane.
At the end of the 4 weeks it is a spanking and 50 of the cane with her tied to a table. If she does not complete in 4 weeks then the 50 and spanking happens every week till she has done.

Her request that if she does complete then she gets to give my bottom a hand spanking decided me to agree providing it was medium and that her caning came afterwards so if she goes overboard I get my own back. However, to make sure she gets what she asked for her task is the following line.
"I am a naughty minx who only wants these lines so I can spank your bottom and to do so must write this line 2000 times"

I think I will go and watch her write some of these and my dear Minx has got what she wanted and has told me needs.

Strage things?

Oh and to see what it is like I have told husband I want 100 times "I am a naughty sissy who will suffer for  along time for having cum by the hand of someone other than my wonderful wife"

So there you are and I believe that husband is going to have two ladies bossing him about for a whiel. You see what I have not admitted is how much of a turn on it was to me to watch Anne tossing him off and then caning him, again.

Another complete change is that while always thought "no never never me" there is some attraction to finding out what it feels like going over Anne's knees for a spanking. I have almost suddenly come to think that as a spanker myself I should find out the basics of how it feels emotionally at least knowing your bum is for a spanking. So there you are Anne and if you work ever so long and hard you might get me over your knees?

Strange Time!!!

Strange times I think.

First there was naughty Minx aka Anne from next door but one. She came in yesterday afternoon and had a coffee then said “I want to ask you something. Don’t laugh. Or at least not too much and consider it please”

She then revealed that she gets off on doing lines like at school. You know sat for hours doing something like “I must not make mistakes or will be punished”. Well she says she had a friend used to keep her busy but no longer and asked me if I would set her lines to write. She explained the line could be up to 3 lines in length and she wanted a severe task with the proviso that once a week she presented what she had done to me and was caned for them.

She proposed that I decide the line, either with her giving me the choice of a few, and then a number and each week she would give them and receive a set number of the cane. If she has not completed them a set number extra and then I can give any extra for mistakes etc.. her alternative was that it would be fortnightly or even monthly. It can be between us two or include husband to watch.

Now blew my mind a bit but the idea of giving her a caning each week does appeal. Not sure about the lines carry on but as Anne says it is only her who has to do them all I do is decide the line and say to her “write xxx lines.”

Well the conversation ended with her over my lap for a hand spanking over 5 minutes or so and me telling her I would think about it. It was all too convenient and easy telling her I was going to spank her LOL But exciting at the same time for us both, as she admitted afterwards.

Any suggestions out there because this is new to me.

Other shocker for me was when husband and I were in bed last night he confessed he thought about what it would be like watching me with another man, or woman. Now came out the blue that even if he did start by asking if I ever thought about what it would be like to have sex with someone else.

Not something I have greatly considered for a few reasons. Mainly I am in love with husband and happy in the sex area. Yes not the biggest down below but uses it well and makes up by having the most adventurous tongue in this planet. I can perhaps understand his submissive voyeur side but not sure how happy he made me by saying “If you wanted to try it I would not mind . Even if I was not there. You know if you were out one night and hade a one night stand...as long as you told me about it when you got home or even text me to ask if I minded before you did”. Now at this stage I had my hand wrapped round his cock and he was deep breathing but I whispered to him “Honey if I want to shag another man I will do and don’t need your permission...is that what you want to hear?” and he popped his cork. Not sure I feel good or bad about husband wanting another man to shag me while he watches or for me to go shag another guy with his permission. Some girls would think it ideal but I think a recipe for disaster round the corner with that one...maybee?? never considered that till now and gives a little tingle but perhaps just keep husband thinking on thta one for a while?

Anyway we have the pink cage and not sure when going on but think possibly today.

I also asked husband what he thought about writing lines and he knew loads about it saying there is loads on line about it (which since read) and he thinks it a great way to punish.

Think he is going to find out soon!!!!!

You know perhaps I am just not worldly enough but see the things you pick up on the net, lines, corner time, mouth washing etc etc all really non-physical punishments but so many people crave that. Makes me think i am strange because no way do I want to spend hours doing lines or the thought of having a soap bar stuck in my mouth...Yuch and as for standing in a corner for an hour...not my scene but many, including my husband would get on their knees and kiss your ass for doing that to them...No decided I am most certainly not the strange one here.

Looking forward to tonight darling?

Its all about ME ME ME NOW!!!

Going out for Sunday Brunch with Anne and husband shortly. May even give naughty Anne a spanking before we go. In fcat tell you what Anne...if you read this before you come round then your on a spanking before we go out and a caning when we get back and all in front of husband with you completely naked. Wet thinking on this and if you do read and want to admit in the next 30 mins just tell me when you arrive "I read your last blog "Miss"

 

And as for my husband? Well you better get the idea into your head sissy because once it goes on you are totally my sissy caged bitch and you realise how cruel I have got since we chatted and got to know Minx?

I know you will read this before long and I want you to ask me , in front of Anne, when we get back after lunch, and once you have changed "May I thank Anne for her present?" and then when I say you can I want you to thank her nicely and then ask if you may put it on.

Quiet Life

Been very quiet since the weekend.

Anne was round for coffee this afternoon and showed me her still bruised bum, pulled her jeans down, panties down and showed me.

Husband has been exceptionally well behaved and looking after me like the lady I am LOL.

After the festivities almost good to have some normal quiet time and this week gets back into the year?

Anne becoming a real close friend and while the talk almost always gets round to spanking, it is something we share and while exciting to chat, just, well, kind of gives us a bond. I mean...how many couples do you know where the wife gives her husband over to a voluptuous drop dead gorgeous friend to thrash?

What we have to take care of is making it too regular, you know a weekend thing every week. I think next time I give in to Anne and agree to spank her that it will be while husband is at work. Yes I know he wants to watch but perhaps a bit of one on one time would be good and take the edge off it. Was stressful getting husband involved at the weekend. Just all that fear thing about him and Anne..electrics etc...or is that just lack of confidence on my part?

Anne’s present arrived and it is a chastity cage all the way from America. Pink in colour with a little padlock and keys. Anne and I discussed it and I text husband that it arrived and what it was.

Have discussed before and he is up for it. Anne says he will get horny as shit and be even more docile and attentive once he appreciates what being locked up means and feels like.

Anne used this on her ex and says husband needs it for a week first time.

So tonight he gets his cage on and then see what happens. I don’t think it will be hidden under his trousers but see about that and would love being out with him knowing I have the key on me and he can’t get out.

So there you are. Nothing really to report today other than I expected a request for more from Anne and she tells me she needs a few more days to recover. Not even a jocular “I could always give your ass a hand spanking” was taken up. Sure was angry looking her ass mind you and bruised.

Yes afraid whoeve gets caned next is in for a torrid time of it now I am in that place!

Such and obedient sissy is husband when all dressed up for me. We both love it.

This is what it looks like

 

Oh

Bit mixed up as to who I would like to spank next...husband or Anne...which concerns me but think it will be Anne because husband is such an obedient boi at the moment and Anne is bound to come back for more.